Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Heaven and Hell

Mallory: Mom, is Hell is where all the fire is?

Me(trying to conceal my shock from the out of nowhere question): Mmmhmm


Mallory:Is that where the Devil is?


Me(suddenly realizing how little I actually know about the place myself): Yes


Mallory: Then why doesn't he just burn up? Like the wood in our fireplace?


Me (I don't remember exactly what I said because I was trying really hard not to scare the poor girl to death. Something to the effect of how someone there would go on burning forever and probably wishes they would burn up into ashes, but they can't, so it's like a fire that never ever ends)


Mallory(dead serious and with as much sweetness as is humanly possible): Wow. Well, I'm glad we're going to Heaven because it's like a playdate that never ends!

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Not Me! Monday

Welcome to Not Me! Monday, where we can be brutally honest with each other, and live to tell about it, while we shroud the severity of our statements by pretending we so did not really do them.
This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.




I did not let Mallory stay up until 10:00pm on a school night again, and I definitely did not hear her say, "Mom, can I go to bed earlier tomorrow night?" Nope, not me.

I did not allow Will to wear the same cheetos/oatmeal/slobber stained, faded Lightning McQueen shirt for 72 hours straight (a new record!) just to avoid a major meltdown. Nope, not me. What kind of mom dresses their kid in one-size-too-small, non-organic, straight from Walmart clothes? Not me.

This couldn't possibly be another picture of Will wearing said shirt while playing with someone elses baby toy. I know that's not what I'm seeing. Because I definitely gave that toy back to its rightful owner immediately after it was found at our house. (By the way, if you recognize this toy and would like it back, then please let me know) I just know I'll get right on top of that!

I'm confident that wasn't my kid singing "Jesus Loves Me" as loud as he could during church yesterday only to surprise everyone with the new "Can he fix it? Yes he can!" ending. Not me, no way. Because I would never allow my child to become so attached to a fictional cartoon character named Bob that he would equate him to Jesus. I am definitely not that mom.

And finally, I so did not spend two hours creating a layout, that still looks like I threw it together in five minutes, just to record the bizarre names Will has given to Mary and Joseph. Who would waste time doing that and then waste even more time posting it for her friends to see? Not me.

Gotta love Mondays! :)

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

And this is how the good news is spread

Mallory is special. I wish you could all know her.
For those of you who do, this story will not come as a surprise to you.

A few months ago Mallory decided that she wanted to start a club with her friends at school, a God Club. The idea of her club would be that during recess they would find a place to sit and talk about God and the Bible. Mal's idea. (Seriously, I never would have suggested asking first grade girls to give up their only free time of the day to sit and listen even more.) At first, several girls were eager to be a part of this club. Instead of all of them talking about God, though, the other girls would ask Mallory questions and she would answer. She always had a story from the Bible picked out to tell them as well.

(Keep in mind that I didn't know about any of this until after this club had met several times)

In time, the other girls grew bored and decided to go back to playing on the playground. With no other members in the club, Mallory decided to join them. They have since been playing "puppies" during recess. Whatever that is.

Then, before school this morning, Mallory told me that a girl from her class had asked her a question about the Bible. This particular girl, we'll call K, was not a member of the original group. So, either she had heard about the God Club where Mallory answers Bible questions or she just knew that Mallory is the friend to ask when you have a question.

K sought Mallory out.

K saw a picture in her Bible of Paul being bitten by a snake. She had never heard that story and wanted to know it. (My first thought when Mallory told me this was that Mal doesn't know that particular story herself.) Wrong. Without hesitation Mallory told K the whole story of Paul being shipwrecked, the snake coming out of the fire, and the people thinking he was a god.
You can read it yourself here

I listened to Mallory repeat in detail the story she told to K. I couldn't believe how easily and with such confidence she told it. To be honest, I didn't even remember all that she had said and I was pretty sure that we have never studied Acts 28 with her. So, I asked her how she knew all that. Mallory said that she had heard the story at church during the children's class. I knew that she loved going to this class, but now I also know that she really pays attention.
Then, Mallory said something that I'll probably never forget.

"You know, if I hadn't have gone to church to hear that story, then I wouldn't have been able to answer K's question."


She's only 7, but already so wise. A man at church prepared a lesson to teach to the children. One child listened well and told the same story to another child. Who knows where this chain of events will lead. My best guess? Heaven.

If we want to be able to teach others the word of God, then we must be prepared. How can we teach what we don't know?

"...Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect..." I Peter 3:15

Mallory prepared herself by first showing others a willingness and ability to share God. She made it known that she wants to talk about the Bible. She did not grow weary when others chose to play instead. She prepared herself by paying attention when someone else was sharing with her. Then, she patiently waited for someone to ask.

"...'I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.' And he took the children in his arms, put his hands on them and blessed them." Mark 10:15

Mallory and friends

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

The two shall become one

There was a wedding uniting two wonderful people.
Everything was perfect.
I was blessed to get to spend time with two of my favorite people, Adam and Casey...whose marriage just celebrated 1 1/2 years.
I even ran into my old friend, Kimberly...who is still looking very young and beautiful!
Jeremy and I reflected on our own wedding...one of our favorite days ever.
Has it really been eight years?
And they lived happily ever after in the Lord.
I love marriage.